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Hi Jeanne! Please tell us a little bit about yourself?
Hi, I’m Jeanne. I am 40 years old and I work in the Finance function in the banking industry.
Could you share with us one of the most challenging seasons you had to go through as a woman?
I was diagnosed with cervical cancer at 39 and had to undergo a radical hysterectomy. That meant an abrupt end to my dreams of becoming a mother. The removal of some pelvic lymph nodes during the surgery for further testing also resulted in post-operative weakness in my left inner thigh.
I’m so sorry. How did you overcome this?
My Catholic faith helped me, knowing God would not give me a cross heavier than what I can bear and He is always there with me. On a physical level, I recognised that I may never quite be the same but it is ok and I can still make the best of what my new body can achieve.
Can you share a few ways to help, support, and care for those who might be going through the same situation?
I think first and foremost, there is a need to acknowledge your thoughts and emotions without judgment. Journaling is a good way to do that. Once your thoughts and emotions are clearly spelled out, you can objectively tackle each one to see how they can be best dealt with.
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What are your hopes surrounding women and the conversation of similar hurdles in the future?
While motherhood can be one of the greatest experiences in a woman’s life, that need not necessarily be the epitome of a woman’s identity. There is so much more to what a woman can be, even if she is not or never going to be a mother.
I hope women will feel more empowered to pursue their own dreams without the pressure of conforming to societal norms.
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